Co-parenting isn’t always easy. Certain challenges occur in this type of arrangement that you might be able to plan for. One of these is how you’re going to handle holidays.
Before you set the plan for holidays, you and your ex should think about what’s going to be the best plan for the children. There are several options that you may consider for holidays, but you may also need to customize a solution that fits your specific situation.
Alternate holidays
Alternating holidays is one of the more common schedules co-parents follow. In this case, you may have the children for one major holiday on even years while your ex has them for that holiday on odd years. This could mean that you have them on Thanksgiving one year and your ex has them for Christmas that year. The following year, you’d have them for Christmas and your ex would have them for Thanksgiving.
Spend holidays together
Another option is for both parents to spend holidays with the children. This requires both parents to get along well so they can present a united front to the children. These days should be enjoyable and filled with positive memories.
Set a single schedule
Some co-parents may be able to work out a single schedule that’s always followed. For example, if your family always gets together on Christmas Eve, but your ex’s family always spends Christmas together, you may work out a holiday schedule that uses that information.
Setting the parenting schedule in writing can help to ensure everyone is on the same page. Other guidelines may also need to be included, so it may be best to discuss the matter with someone who can give you appropriate and experienced legal guidance.
